SUDBURY, ONTARIO (June 8, 2009) - Thousands of participants sport daffodil-coloured t-shirts. There are hundreds of balloons dancing in the wind and almost as many strollers. The field at Cambrian College is filled with participants, young and old, anticipating the start of the 10th annual Canadian Cancer Society Relay for Life. Naked Soul, one of many bands playing at the relay, performs Melissa Etheridge’s I Run for Life, a song Etheridge wrote after her own battle with breast cancer.
Amid this crowded sea of people, shimmering in the
golden evening sunlight, there is a special team of nurses, huddled together against the wind, waiting patiently as their dear friend and colleague greets her many well-wishers. These greetings, which resemble a receiving line at a wedding, last nearly one hour. The woman at the centre is clearly loved.
Uniform shops often carry a selection of trinkets – mugs, lapel pins, baseball caps – with sayings alluding to the fact that nurses care a great deal about their patients. In fact, some colleges used to honour graduates with awards for displaying exceptional bedside manner. There’s a
good chance Danielle Richer would have won one of those awards.
Richer, 43, has spent nearly half her life treading through the hallways of Sudbury’s hospitals. She has been working as a registered practical nurse (RPN) in the oncology unit at the Sudbury Regional Hospital for two years. She graduated from college in 1991 and before that, she worked as a nurse’s aide. She is, by all accounts, a devoted health care practitioner with a big heart.
In October 2008, two months shy of her 43rd birthday, Richer was diagnosed with cancer. Not surprisingly, she was shocked and then devastated.
“I wasn’t really thinking,” Richer says. “I went through all kinds of emotions and thought about having to tell my family.”
She underwent emergency surgery. When Richer woke up, she discovered her family, which includes her husband Darren and their three children, aged 15, 17 and 21, had already been informed of her diagnosis.
Richer speaks in hushed tones barely louder than a whisper. She is gracious and apologizes – her lips are dry and she finds it difficult to speak. After the sun sets, the weather turns chilly. Richer is in pain and she is kept warm by several blankets. In her wheelchair, she seems small and lost in the mess of blankets. Her friends and colleagues are attentive and keep a close eye on her. Right now, her body is fragile, but her will is strong. Her friends concur – Richer is a natural-born fighter and one very resolute woman.
June 4 and
5 were
not good days. Richer, who is currently a patient on the fourth floor at the Laurentian site, says she felt unwell, but she focused on the relay and was determined to attend. She wanted to be there – for herself, her friends, her family and the other survivors. Friday afternoon, her doctor said she was strong enough to attend.
“I’m overwhelmed to see everyone here tonight,” Richer says. “I didn’t expect everyone to come for me, to see me and to support me … Even if people are feeling unwell, they’re still here.”
When her colleagues found out about Richer’s diagnosis, they rallied to support her, while commemorating their patients who have succumbed to cancer or continue to fight the disease.
The theme of the Relay for Life, which took place June 5-6, was A Night of Heroes. With this in mind, the oncology staff donned pale yellow capes and adopted their own fitting moniker – Live the Moment – to remind themselves of the importance of the small moments in life. The team is dedicated to Richer.
Nicole Foy, team captain, says the capes, many of which are adorned with screened images
of Richer, symbolize hope and the strength of cancer patients. Richer’s cape is green – the colour of life.
“Our heroes are our patients,” Foy explains. “They are the ones who’ve fought the battle. This is in their memory.
“Tonight is a celebration of life and of the heroes who teach us what life is really about. They are our true teachers.”
In this temporary tent city, team Live the Moment stands out with its elaborate set-up. It is clearly the work of nurses – meticulously organized with nearly every realistic convenience. Their massive tent could easily sleep eight or 10 people. There’s a full complement of snacks and goodies inside to satiate hungry participants in the long hours ahead. There are also several bottles of insect repellent. The tent’s canopy is adorned with solar-powered patio lights and there is enough seating to fill a small conference room. There is even a double bed set up, with plush blankets and fluffy pillows for sleepy walkers. This is a tent designed to ensure comfort, camaraderie and good conversation.
A mulberry tree has been brought in and decorated with photos of colleagues and loved ones who have fought cancer. Although Richer’s illness is on the minds of her colleagues, the atmosphere at Live the Moment headquarters is festive and celebratory. Her arrival is anticipated and her colleagues look forward to the relay.
“It took my mind off the immediacy of Danielle’s illness,” Foy says of the planning process.
Foy says working together has been therapeutic for team members, helping to alleviate feelings of shock, isolation and helplessness wrought by Richer’s cancer diagnosis. Live the Moment has been planning this evening for months and has raised more than $4,000. Foy says Richer has been involved from the beginning and this night – this moment – represents a victory for the entire team.
Undaunted by the prospect of walking all night, Foy says nurses are used to nights and shift work.
“Being here all night is nothing compared to what (our patients) go through,” Foy says.
Darren Richer says the relay is a family affair – with their children volunteering at the event – and added it was very important to him and his wife that they participate as a unit.
The Richer family has received incredible support. Darren says he is moved to see how many friends his wife has and to see how many people support her.
People came from as far away as Hu
ntsville, Kapuskasi
ng and Kirkland Lake to participate and in the 10 days prior to the event, Darren says the family raised more than $3,000 in donations.
Cathy Burns, a unit manager at the Sudbury branch of the Canadian Cancer Society, says the relay is a unifying force.
“The community comes together to take up a fight,” Burns says. “I don’t think there’s anyone at Cambrian College tonight who hasn’t somehow been affected by cancer. … This shows that we’re not alone; we’re here to support each other in this journey.”
For Burns, the survivor lap is one of the evening’s highlights.
“You look at that lap and each year, there are more and more survivors walking,” she explains. “If someone asks me whether research is working, I can say yes, because we have more and more survivors walking that lap every year.”
With 150 teams and more than 1,500 participants, the 2009 Relay for Life raised approximately $325,000 in donations. Burns says that money is used to fund cancer research, the local volunteer driver program, the peer support program and the information outreach program. Approximately $100,000 will be used to support the clinical trials program at the Northeastern Ontario Regional Cancer Centre (NEORCC).
Richer’s journey continues. She knows some days will be better than others, but she vows to keep fighting.
“Without this day and without this support, none of the survivors would be able to go on,” she whispers. “I think it’s amazing that, year after year, people continue to fight. … If I’m not physically here next year to do this, I’ll be here in memories, in heart and in soul. I’ll be smiling.”






